I have 2 missed messages from different contacts. How do I find out who called first?
If you have more than one message from multiple contacts, the app won't automatically change contact selection. In the future we add Recents view in BlackBerry similar to offered by Windows Mobile now, which would allow easily see the list of most recent communications. For now there is no way to tell the order of two missed messages other that looking in history for each contact.
When user is online the last incoming contact is selected automatically (but there will be no green dot in such case).